Stop letting other people run your life

At some point in your journey of self-improvement, you’ve probably found yourself looking up to people: entrepreneurs, influencers, mentors, etc.

I get it. I’ve done the same.

If someone has already achieved what you want, the smartest thing you can do is learn from them. In fact, I completely encourage it.

Take their advice. Study their systems. See what works and apply it to your own situation.

The problem is that too many men get stuck there.

They hop from one guru to the next, binging podcasts and buying every single course out there only to find their life doesn’t change.

Why?

Because at a certain point, more knowledge isn’t the answer. The problem is your inability to make your own decisions.

You can’t outsource that.

Sure, you can use someone’s experience as a reference. But only you have the full context of your life. No one else knows more about your values, your priorities or your circumstances than you do.

The truth is, you can’t be Andrew Tate. You can’t be Dan Martell. You can’t be Alex Hormozi. You can only be you.

Stop trying to perfectly follow someone else’s rules. Take what works, leave the rest and write your own.

Because the worst thing you can do is trade your identity for someone else’s.

Make your own calls. If they turn out great, good. If they blow up in your face, also good. That’s the beauty of life.

That’s how you grow. That’s how you become someone worth following.